You are stuck in a loop. You can see it, you can feel it, but you do not want to be the one trying too hard.
Standard advice says: “If they wanted to, they would.” But human psychology is more complex than a meme. Pull-back can mean disinterest. Or ambivalence. Or avoidance. Or a timing mismatch. If you treat all of those the same, you respond blindly.
We do not teach you how to chase. We help you recalibrate. By analyzing signals in the chat, you get a framework for comparing your options. Not a big, dramatic confrontation, but small, considered shifts whose possible effects you can review.
It is not manipulation. It is understanding the rules of the game you are already in, and finally playing consciously instead of suffering passively inside it.